Sunday, 25 May 2014

The #1 Secret To Attracting Women - What Successful Men Know That You Don't

http://www.attractwomenreport.com/secret-to-attracting-women/
The #1 Secret To Attracting Women - What Successful Men Know That You Don't
If you know nothing about women or the best ways to pick up and seduce women, you only need to know one thing. You only need to know THE one biggest secret to attracting women that all successful men naturally have and losers don't.

- James Bond has it
- Sports and movie stars have it
- Rich men have it
- Men that know how to attract women have it
- YOU can also have it

What is this magic secret that can turn you from zero to hero like a Hogwarts charm? Whiskey? Zen meditation ? Pheromones extracted from the Tasmanian wombat? It is something called CONFIDENCE.

CONFIDENCE? WHAT DO YOU MEAN?

If you examine rich or successful men, they have a certain vibe, a certain authority, a certain swagger, a certain confidence. They radiate confidence in their body language, their voice intonations, and the way they connect with women. Because of the successes and experiences that got them their high level of natural confidence, successful men have an inherent high sense of value and do not fear women or rejection.

THE CONCEPT OF PERCEIVED VALUE

Aside from puppy love and teenage crushes, what attracts a woman to a man is not his looks, wealth, success, charm, or his remarkable conversational skills. Instinctively, what attracts a woman to a man is his value. While for men, a woman's value initially is only just how hot she looks, for a woman, it's more complicated on an instinctive level. A woman, especially a beautiful woman, has an exact sense of her intrinsic value. She knows exactly what she is worth and what level of a man she is able to attract. Naturally, the more the woman thinks of herself, the higher the level of men she is going to try to attract.

This concept of the way the woman thinks of herself is her perceived value. What she thinks of a man is her perceived value of that man. A woman will be attracted to a man ONLY if her perceived value of him is higher than her own value. There is a popular myth saying that a woman, upon meeting a man, instantly judges whether she will sleep with him or not. While this is only partly true IMO, the woman WILL decide subconsciously if your value is higher that hers or not, thus being attracted to you.

SO WHAT DOES THAT MEAN IN THE SCHEME OF THINGS?

The concept of perceived value means that you have to show the woman that your value is higher than hers. This is called "demonstrating your value" in pickup artist parlance. But before you have a chance to demonstrate your value, you first have to approach the woman and get in the door and actually have her receptive to what you have to say. The instant you go up to a woman, she can only judge your value by your level of confidence.

The higher your confidence, the higher your perceived value will be. With higher perceived value, you can attract the hotter women. Now the only problem is if you're not rich, successful, powerful, or James Bond, how exactly do you radiate confidence that women find so alluring?

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